Three years ago, I came to the U.S. with just two suitcases. Yesterday, I walked past the bus stop where I once stood trying to figure life out — and realized how much has changed.
The Best Advice I’ve Ever Received
Three years ago, I came to the United States with just two suitcases.
No house. No stable job. No clear plan. Just belief and a goal to build something better for myself.
In the beginning, I used to take a public bus to work. I remember standing there early in the morning, sometimes tired, sometimes stressed, just thinking about how everything would turn out.
Yesterday, I went to Jersey City and saw that exact same spot where I used to wait for the bus.
The place looked the same.
But my life is different now.
At 21 years old, I have my own house. I work at one of the big banks as a P.T. banker, I’m proud of it. I’m pursuing my bachelor’s degree. And on top of that, I’m studying for the CFA to build a future in Wall st.
None of this happened overnight.
It wasn’t one big opportunity or lucky break. It was small effort every single day. Showing up to work. Going to class. Studying when I didn’t feel like it. Staying disciplined when nobody was watching.
The best advice I ever received was simple:
“Be patient and keep building.”
Back then, I didn’t fully understand it. I wanted fast results. I wanted quick progress. But now I realize real growth takes time.
It’s not about moving fast.
It’s about not stopping.
If I’ve learned anything in these three years, it’s this:
Start with what you have.
Don’t rush your timeline.
Stay consistent even when it feels slow.
Trust the process, even when you can’t see results yet.
Three years ago, I was standing at a bus stop hoping life would improve.
Today, I’m still building — just on a stronger foundation.
And I’m proud of how far I’ve come.
Aryan Shah 